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How To Love Better

You can heal relationships when you accept that fear causes most heartache:

Love is kind.
Fear is unkind.
Love is generous.
Fear is selfish.
Love is unconditional.
Fear is full of conditions.

In the track of fear, I love you if you let me control you, if you are good to me, if you fit into the image I make for you. I create an image of the way you should be, and because you are not and never will be the image, I judge you because of that, and find you guilty. Many times I even feel ashamed of you because you are not what I want you to be. If you don’t fit that image I create, you embarrass me, annoy me, I have no patience at all with you. I am just pretending kindness.

In the track of love, there is no if; there are no conditions. I love you for no reason, with no justification. I love you the way you are, and you are free to be who you are.

For more inspiration, consider Don Miguel Ruiz’s The Mastery of Love:

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